I've changed the transformer as I've used to think that commutation spikes are due to its leakage inductance, but I was wrong, the transformer has about 100mH of leakage inductance but this is not the problem.
Diode commutations spikes are still there. Those spikes are attenuated with 100ohm+1uF snubber on the HV secondary of both transformers (transformers are from two different productors).
I dismantiled the whole project and left only the phase inverter + final board, the spikes was there.
I removed the feedback and the output transformer ground, spikes always there.
I've disconnected the power tubes ground from the signal tubes ground and wired two ground cables to the star ground, the input ground is connected to the first tube grid resistor (not directly on the star ground), noway, the spikes are there.
So the problems can be two:
1) PCB errors that I'm not able to see
2) course on the chassis, transformers or me (I'll call Wanna Marchi and I'll let you know
EDIT the problem was solved using a humdinger and the PCB was modified to accomodate the relative trimmer.