Hey Jeff 
  Here is how I did mine.
1) isolate the speaker jack and ground it on the ground side of B+ 1st filter cap.
  You can isolate either the output speaker jack or the loop jacks.(I've used the plastic ones) again you want to separate the high current gnd points to the low current ones.
2) ground all FX pots to the FX send & return jacks which also have a ground wire connecting those send & return jacks grounding lugs. 
   Correct!
3) ground all FX grounds (such as cathodes) to the ground of the FX send/return jacks
 Correct!. 
4) the FX tube plates needs it's own B+ filter cap (not shared with any other gain stages in the amp)
 Correct this way you can gnd the filters further downstream.
5) Even if the FX level pot is on the front of the amp, it still has a wire running to the ground of the FX send/return jacks
   Yes if you put the level pot on the front it can still be grounded at the pre-amp's main (low current) ground point
Am I understanding this correctly?  Any changes or additions to this approach? 
  The theory is to keep your "low current" (preamp gnd) further downstream from your "high current" ones. High current ones generally being down by the power transformer and back center of the amplifier and the preamps down by the input jack.(opposite end front) 
IMO the best way to do this is a separate PCB board mounted on the back that has it's own separate gnd plane
Here is a quick and easy test to do to check for noise levels.
  
   Jump out the loop with a patch cable and with the amp on and master (on the amp) turned down crank up return pot and listen for when the noise starts to increase to where you can just start to here it. then bring up the amps master and send and see if this adds any noise (it probably will) then go to the OD side with the gain set about where you use it.Then hit the PAB all the while checking your noise levels on the way up.This is a great test to check each level in every stage of the amp on out to the loop 
 
 
  If it's dead quiet congratulations! successful test. 
 
 
 
Tony